What I have realized in this short timespan since I have been put on this earth is, everything is derived from passion and you have got to love it. Whatever there is, it needs to have passion to achieve it.
Let’s take romance for example. If there is no passion between the two individuals, they cannot be together. That is the reason why the relationships feels so good while you are courting. The level of passion while courting is maximum and it diminishes as time goes by. That is the main reason for things not working out between two people. Even when you are ending a relationship, you have passion for that as well or else you won’t be able to do it.
Ending a relationship is either well thought and processed decision or a decision taken in haste. You will always regret the latter. When your decision is well thought the passion to end it is derived from the positives and negatives that you must have thought about. When such decisions are taken in haste, your passion is derived from what you are feeling at that particular moment. If you let that moment pass, you will not be able to do it.
Same goes with suicides. If a suicide is well thought, you will be able to find a justification for why that person took his own life. Maybe you won’t be able to justify it to his loved ones but deep down you will know that this was a well thought decision. If someone takes this decision in haste, all you will find is chaos. You will never be able to justify why that person took his own life.
These are very common examples of what we see around us every day. Using these two examples, I would like to ask you to do one thing, if there is any decision that you are about to take which may hurt one or more people, please sit back and think about it. Let that moment pass and introspect if you really want to do it. If there is any possible way that you can make it work. If there is any possible way that you can hold on to it for the reasons you’ve been holding on to it for so long. Sleep over it, take some advice from the people you think are important to you. If you have hesitations, make it sound like it is someone else you are taking advice from.
What I do is whenever I have to take advice from my father and I am not comfortable discussing that particular topic with him I say, “Hey Dad, there’s this friend of mine that you don’t know about and he’s stuck in a very unusual situation. I would very much like to help him” and then let out whatever’s bothering you. Trust me this approach really helps.
If there’s a girl that you have been wanting to talk to, do not thing about it and go for it. Take this decision in haste because it’s not going to hurt anybody. What would be the worst case scenario, she’ll probably say no, that’s it.
Now, if you’re going to kill someone, you should probably think about it A LOT!!! Go home, take sleep, and think about what are the things that can go wrong. Do not only think that you might get caught and go to jail. You should also think what would happen to the people who are related to your would be victim. He must have a family, what would happen to them.
Okay, that being said, Do Not Kill ANYONE, I repeat, DO NOT KILL ANYONE.
I hope this article will help you to prevent any sort of impulsive damage that you are about to do or maybe you would have done in the future. You can thank me later.